I often feel like we don't see the inlaws enough. I sat here today pondering if it is because they actually expect an invite before they will come and visit.
I did tell hubby last night to give them a ring and see if they wanted to come for lunch, but he sat pouting and stuck to his guns even harder. "I am NOT ringing them!"
He has been down and out with Pneumonia for a couple of weeks now and his parents still haven't bothered to come and see him. The odd phone call yes, but how hard would a visit be?!?
Hence my pondering today....
Maybe they do actually expect an invite before they will come and visit us. I know that was the done thing in the old days. I did think they were beyond that now. Sheesh we have been together for 11yrs, they SHOULD know by now they are welcome anytime. Surely?!
Do you prefer people to only visit when invited or are you happy for friends/family to drop in when they like?